Ugly Sweater Party — Sat 14 November, San Diego Harley-Davidson ·
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THE FERAL HOUSEWIVES CLUB
From silence to strength
Empowering survivors to break the cycle of abuse. A San Diego women's
motorcycle club raising money for the people our community forgets — with grit, grace,
and a little bit of chaos.
Saturday 14 November 2026 · 1–5 PM
San Diego Harley-Davidson — VIP Room
4645 Morena Blvd, San Diego, CA
We're mixing chaos, charity and Christmas lights in true Feral fashion. Ugly sweater
contest (bring your worst), prizes, raffles, tacos, drinks, a DJ, dancing and awards.
All proceeds gather supplies for “Go Bags”
for domestic violence survivors. Prefer to send items rather than cash? Our
Amazon Go Bag list
ships directly to us.
18+ only — no children. Anyone 21+ gets a wristband after age verification.
Also on the calendar
Lotería runStupid Cupid
Stupid Cupid Motorcycle Run
Sun, Feb 7 202710:00 AMSan Diego
Nine stops across the county, a Lotería card at every one. Collect the full deck and
trade it in at the year-end games. Proceeds go to domestic violence survivors.
We didn't set out to start a movement. In 2013, we were just a few people trying to hold
each other up after life knocked us down. Back then we were called Together As
3{Point}One — a name that came from a place of grief, love, and the
desperate need to do something good in the face of tragedy.
We started small. Helping families who were hurting. Organizing events to raise money for
causes that mattered. Over time we partnered with local charities and raised nearly
$100,000. Every dollar was a lifeline. Every event was a heartbeat. And every
story reminded us why we kept going.
Then life happened. We hit pause. Not because we wanted to — but because sometimes
survival has to come first.
Now we're back. Louder. Bolder. Wilder. We've shed the old name and stepped into who we
really are: The Feral Housewives Club. We're here to serve our community with
grit, grace, and a little bit of chaos. Because healing doesn't always look like silence.
Sometimes it looks like burnouts, belly laughs, and a crowd of survivors turning pain
into power.
This isn't just a comeback. It's a reckoning.
Give like a feral woman: wildly, freely, and without asking permission.
For nonprofits
Fundraise with us
Join our event with zero cost and zero hassle. We handle the planning,
hosting, expenses and liability — you simply show up, promote the event, and raise money
for your charity. No fees, no responsibilities, no tough decisions. All you have to do
is say yes.
We plan it
From the first concept through logistics, permits and vendors, to day-of coordination
and post-event breakdown. You stay in the driver's seat the whole way.
We cover it
Expenses and liability sit with us, not with you. That means more of what comes in
goes straight to the cause instead of the overhead.
You raise it
Show up, bring your people, tell your story. The money raised goes to your charity —
we just build the room it happens in.
Sponsors get featured across our events, our socials and this site — in front of a
San Diego audience that actually turns up. Do something with us and we'll make sure
people know it.
We're a San Diego women's motorcycle community that throws fundraising events for local
nonprofits — with a particular focus on domestic violence survivors. We started in 2013 as
Together As 3{Point}One and have raised close to $100,000 for local causes.
In practice we work as a connector: motorcycle, running, car and truck clubs, arts
organisations and survivor services, all pulled into the same room and pointed at a cause.
Our tagline is charity with a side of chaos, and we mean both halves of it.
What's the next event?
The Ugly Sweater Party on Saturday 14 November,
1–5 PM, at the San Diego Harley-Davidson VIP Room. General admission is $35, VIP is $60, and
all proceeds gather Go Bag supplies for domestic violence survivors.
Tickets are here.
After that, the Stupid Cupid Motorcycle Run opens the 2027 season in February, bike nights
run monthly March through October, the Superhero 5K lands in June, and the Redneck Games
close the year out.
Can I bring my kids to the Ugly Sweater Party?
Not this one, sorry — it's 18+ and no children. Anyone 21 or over gets a
wristband or stamp after age verification at the door.
What's a Go Bag, and can I donate supplies instead of money?
A Go Bag is a packed bag of essentials for someone leaving an unsafe home — documents,
medication, a change of clothes, chargers, cash, and the small things people forget in a
hurry.
Yes. Our Amazon Go Bag list has exactly what we need and ships
straight to us — most items are under $15. Buy a ticket and the same list is emailed with
your confirmation. You can also
donate directly.
Where is The Feral Housewives Club located?
We're based in San Diego, California, and our events run across the county — from Chula
Vista and Coronado out to El Cajon, Santee and Lakeside.
We don't have a permanent home yet. We're raising money to open a clubhouse — we call it
the treehouse — so we have one consistent base for bike nights, vendors and events instead
of hopping between venues. You can
chip in here.
Do I need a motorcycle to be part of this?
No. Plenty of our people don't ride. Events are open to everyone, and the runs always have
a crowd at the start and finish who came for the cause rather than the bike.
That said — if you do ride, we want to hear from you. See below.
How can my organisation work with you?
If you're a nonprofit, we'll run a fundraising event for you at no cost — see
Fundraise with us. If you're a business, we have sponsor slots open
for the season. Either way,
email us and we'll take it from there.
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to plan the events, let alone pester you.
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Contact us
Better yet — see us in person. Meet up with us at
our next event, or catch us on
Instagram.